100 Love Tips IN Hindi

1 Hamesha Ladki ke aankho se aankhen milakar hi baat kare, isse Ladkiyan impress hoti hai.

2 Ladkiyon se jab bhi mile ek pyaari si smile Zarur kare.

3 Hamesha unki help ke liye taiyaar rahe.

4 Unka Birth day kabhi naa bhule aur unhe koi Beautiful gift Zarur de, yaa ek Rose.

5 Us par kabhi bhi gussa na kare, Hamesha pyaar se hi pesh aaye.

6 Ladkiyan Shayari pasand karti hai, isliye aksar unhe unki khubsurti par koi Shayari sunate rahe, aisa karte rahne se wo aapke pyaar me pagal ho jayegi.

7 Unse hamesha achche Dress me hi mile, yaad rakhe aap ko bhi attractive dkhna padega.

8 Agar aap ek hi class me hai to unko Study me yaa Notes banane me Help karte rahe, aisa karne se aap unke aur bhi karib aate jaenge.

9 Aap jab bhi unse mile unhe Hi yaa Hello yaa Shake hand karna na bhule, isse apna pan badata jaega.

10 Ladkiyon ko Good personality wale Ladke bahut achche lagte hai, issliye koi achchi si Gym me exercise kar apni Body ko attractive banaye. isse Ladkiyan aapko dekhte hi impress ho jaengi.

11. Agar aapke pass cell phone hai aur us ladki ke paas bhi ( jise aap patana chahte hai), to aksar usko Funny SMS yaa Love SMS yaa Friendship SMS bhejte rahe. aisa karne se aap unki yaado me bane rahenge.

12 Friendship aur Valentines day ko unhe hamesha wish kare aur ek Pyara sa Gift jarur de. aisa karna najdiki badane ke liye bahut jaruri hai.

13 Ladkiyon se hamesha Romantic mood me hi baat kare, aise baat kare jisse unhe lage ki aap ko unse baat karke bahut hi maza aa raha hai.

14 Hamesha unko Respect de, isse aap unki nazaron me ek achche Ladke bane rahenge, jo Ladki patane ke liye bahut hi zaruri hai.

 15 Ladkiyon se kabhi mat sharmaiye, Maximum Ladki sharmile Ladko ko pasand nahi karti hai, issliye hamesha frankly unse mile.

16 Apni Personality perfect rakhne ke liye hamesha chust durust dikhe, na ki sust yaa kaamchor. Ladkiyan furtile Ladko ko hi pasand karti hai.

 17 Agar Ladki Filmo ki shaukin hai to usse aksar Film ke hi bare me baate kare, isse wo aapse apni feeling bantkar khush aur impress hongi.

 18 Aap apne din ki shuruwat unhe ek mast Good Morning SMS bhejkar karen.

 19 Raat ko sone se pahle ek Pyara sa Good Night SMS bhejkar bhi aap unhe impress kar sakte hai.

20 Ladkiyon se usi topic par baat-chit karo jis me use baat karne me maza aaye, isse wo aapse bahut waqt tak baat kar sakti hai. aur aapki Dosti Pyar me bhi badal sakti hai.

21 Ladkiyon ke samne hamesha apna Cina taan kar chale, aisa karne se Mardangi jhalkti hai aur Ladkiyan Mardon ko hi pasand karti hai.

 22 Ladkiyan darpok ladko ko pasand nahi karti hai issliye aap darna chhod de aur Ladkiyon se ek nidar ki tarah react kare.

23 Agar Ladki aapse kuch mange to use zarur pura karne ki koshish kare( *aap ki jaan k ellawa ), isse Ladkiyan aapse itni impress hongi jiski aap imagine bhi nahi kar sakte.

24 Unke Birth day par sabse pehle aap wish kare, isse wo aapko kabhi nahi bhul pyengi.

25 Hamesha unse kisi na kisi bahane milte rahe, isse aap unki nazaron aur yaado me aksar bane rahenge.

 26 Unhe Dinner ya Lunch ke liye offer kare, ager wo agree ho jaye to unke pasand ke hotel me unke pasand ki dish order kare. wo forann aap par fida ho jayegi.

 27 Ladkiyon se pehle Dosti karo baad me unse apne Dil ki baat kahna, Pyar ke mamle me patience se kaam le.

 28 Jab wo aap se baat kare to unki baato ko unki aankon me aankhen dalkar pore dhyan se sune.

29 Agar Ladki aapki neighbor ho to roz subah unko dekhte hi Good Morning zaror kahe.

 30 Agar Ladki aapki Class met ho to unse shake hand jarur kare.

31 Agar aap unke sath antakhshari khele to unko target karke Loveable song zarur gaye.

 32 Agar wo aapse raste par Lift mange to aap use zarur de, aur aise react kare jaise aap bahut zaruri kaam se ja rahe the Lekin unke liye aapne jaruri kaam chhod kar unhe Lift di, isse wo aap se Impress hue bina nahi rah sakegi aur aap use aasani se pata lenge.

33 Agar wo koi problem me ho to sabse pehle unki help ke liye aap pahuche, ye Ladki patane ke liye zaruri sabak hai.

 34 Ladkiyan bahut emotional hoti hai isliye unki emotion ki hamesha ezzat kare.

 35 Agar Ladki koi bhari kaam kar rahi hai to aap unki madad zarur kare. kaam me hath batane se Pyar badata hai.

 36 Agar School/College me unki Gaadi ka Petrol khatam ho gaya ho to aap apni Gaadi ka Petrol nikalkar zarur de. (* agar kisi aur ki gadi ka nikalna pare to b koi baat nai magar aisa sunehri moqa hath se na jane dein)

37 Unse hamesha hansi mazak karte rahe, Lekin ek limit me hi.

38 Agar Ladki kahi paidal ja rahi ho to aap unhe apni Bike me Pahucha dene ka offer zarur kare, aisa impression jamane ke liye badiya mauka hai.

 39 Aap kisi Ladki ko bahut pyar karte hai to apni feeling ko Pink color ke paper par likhkar unhe zarur de, yaani unhe Love Letter likhe.

 40 Maximum Ladkiyan Funny Ladke pasand karti hai, isliye aapko bhi Funny banana padega.

41 Jab bhi aap Ladkiyon se mile to unhe ek Mazedar Jokes zarur sunaye, yaa kuch Funny Shayari hi.

42 Agar wo Morning walk karne jati hai to aap bhi uske sath sath walk karne jaye, subah ke mast mahaul me aap unse Mazedar baate kar unhe impress kar sakte hai.

 43 Agar unke paas cell phone hai to kisi bhi bahane unse Contact karte rahiye, aur SMS bhi bhejte rahiye.

 44 Agar unka tabiyat thik naa ho to unse milne zarur jaye, aur unka haal chaal zarur puche. (* agar tabiat kharab na huti ho to julab ki goolyan khila dein).

45 Apne Birth Day me unhe invite karna na bhule, aur aaye to ye kahna "aap hi ka intzar kar raha tha, ab aap aa gai ho ab mai Cake katunga.

 46 Unke diye hue Gift ki tarif zarur kare, tarif karna Diye me Ghee dalne ke jesa hai.

 47 Agar unka Mail ID aap jante ho to unko Mail karte rahe aur ye ehsas dilaye ki aap dinbhar unki hi khayalo me khoye rahte hai.

 48 Agar aap ko apne Padosan ko patana ho to unke ghar aate jate rahe aur zarurat padne par unki madad karte rahe. Unhe rotya lagwa kar dein utilty store se aata la kar den ...*( utilty store se na mile to apne ghar se la kar dein )

49 Agar Padosan ka bhai bhi hai to, Pehle uske bhai se Dosti karo, uske bhai ki nazaro me aap ek samajhdar Ladke ki tarah raho, isse aapka unke ghar aana jana laga rahega. *( bhai chota hu to tofyan le kar do aur agar bara hu to sirf mashwra do )

50 Har insan apni tarif sunana chahta hai, isliye aap Ladki ke har Chizo ki tarif karte rahe. Kabi naak ki kabi aankhon ki aur kabo taango aur taango me mojod joton ki tarif karna na bholein.

51 Ladkiyon se hamesha Confidence ke sath hi baat kare.

 52 Agar aap kisi Ladki ko Patana chahte hai to usse baat karne ki koshish kare. aur apni feeling ko kisi din Letter me likhkar unhe de do. isse Ladki aapke Himmat ki Kayal ho jayegi. (* magar ye khayal zrur rakhye k jotey b par sakte hein)

53 Agar unka koi Nick name ho to aap unko Nick name se hi pukare. isse aap unko apne se lagenge.

54 Jab bhi aap unse mile to unko uske pasand ki Chocolate zarur dein. Ladkiyon ke shauk pure karne se unko Patane me aasani hoti hai. ( magar ap ki jebkharch ko...).

55 Agar Ladki ice-cream khane ki shaukin ho to unko jarur isske liye offer karte rahein.

56 Ladkiyan agar group me ho to aap unhe (Jinhe Patana hai) hi dekhte rahe, aisa karne se wo bhi aap ke taraf attract ho jaegi.

57 Agar aap kisi Ladki ko Propose karna chahte ho to, aap unka ek hath padkar unhe Red Rose dekar Propose karein. wo aap ka Proposal zarur accept kar legi. ( warna aapko uski taraf se kuch accept karna pare ga , chapait,jota ya kuch aur)

58 Unki har ada ki tarif zarur kare, wo zarur khush hongi. ( matlab makhan lagao)

59 Propose karna Mard ka kaam hai iss liye aap ye mat soche ki Ladki aakar aapko Propse karengi, Pahle aapko hi Propose karna hoga.

60 Agar wo kabhi aapke ghar ke samne se guzre to use apne ghar zarur bulayen, aur Chaay ya Coffee zarur pilaye. isse wo aapke mehman navazi ki kayal ho jayegi.

61 Agar aap unka ghar jante hai to Eid (bakra eid) ke din unke ghar zror jayin gosht lene .

62 Agar aap Party me kisi Ladki ko Patana chahte ho to, aap sabse pehle unse jakar milen aur apna Introduction de, isse dhire-dhire baat cheet ka silsila shuru hoga aur aap use Pata lenge.

63 Aap ki Padosan agar School/College jane ke liye nikal rahi ho to aap unke sang hole aur unse baat karte hue aap bhi jaye. aisa Continue 3 Dino tak kare aur 4th Din mat jana, wo 5th Din aapse zarur puchegi kal kyu nahi aaye. aur iss tarah mulakat se aap use Pata hi lenge.

64 Ladki Patane ke liye Confidence bahur hi zaruri hai isliye aap Pahle apne aap pe bharosa rakhiye ki aap use Pata kar hi Dumm lenge, aur aap apne Confidence ke bal par hi use Pata lenge.

65 Ladkiyan Patane ke liye apne aap me kuch quality paida kare, jaise Singing, Dancing, Body Building, Acting. quality hone se Ladki Patana bahut asan ho jata hai.

66 Agar aap me koi buri aadat ho to use chhod de, bure Ladke pasand nahi kiye jate hai, isliye apni buri aadato ko chod de.

67 Ladkiyon ke samne kabhi bhi Smoking na kare aur na hi Drinking. ye baat hamesha yaad rakhe Ladkiyan Good Manners wale Ladko ko hi Pasand karti hai.

68 Ladkiyon ke samne kabhi bhi Gandi baate naa kare isse aapka unke samne ek bad boy ki image ban jaygi. aap unke samne Talented person ki tarah hi Behavior kare.

69 Agar aap jante hai ki wo kis Film Hero ki Fane hai to aap usi Hero ke jaisi Hair Style rakhe aur usi ki tarah dikhne ki khoshish kare. Ladki aapse impress hogi hi.

70 Aap hamesha unse sach bolne ki koshish kare, isse aap unhe sachche Ladke lagenge. jo ki impress karne ke liye zaruri hai.

71 Aap unke lye hamesha vafadar rahe, har Ladkiyan ek vafadar sathi ki talash me rehti hai.

72 Agar aapke makaan ke kiraye daar ko Patana ho to uske kuch mahine ka Kiraya maaf karde. isse aapki unse nazdikiyan badengi. aur wo aapka ehsan mand ho jaengi ( agar aap kanjoos aadmi hu to koi baat nai dil pe haath rakhein kuch pane k lye kuch khona parta ha , kuch samjho karo yar).

73 Ladkiyan hazirjawab Ladkon ko Pasand karti hai issliye aap hazirjawab dene wale person baniye ( lekin jaldi mein koi chawal maarne se parhez karain)

74 Kai Ladkiyan filmo ki baate karna bahut pasand karti hai, aise Ladkiyon se aap unke pasand ki filmo ke baare me baate karke unhe impress kar sakte hai.

75 Intelligent Ladko se Ladkiyan impress hoti hai issliye aap apni Study improve karke Ladkiyon ko impress kar sakte hai.

76 Ladkiyan Patane ke liye aapka General Knowledge Strong hona chahiye, GK Ladkiyon ko Patane me bahut hi Helpful hota hai.

77 Ladkiyan saaf suthri image wale Ladko ko Like karti hai issliye aap jhagde-jhanjhaton se dur hi rahe.

78 Aap jis Ladki ko Patana chahte hai use agar koi pareshaan kar raha ho to aap us Ladki ki madad kare, isse wo Ladki aapse forann Pat jayegi. ( aap ko villen se maar b khana par sakti ha)

79 Agar wo koi khaas type ke Book read karne ki shaukin ho to aap use wo Book Gift kare (for exa. Comics, Film Magazines etc.). wo aapse zarur impress hongi aur aap unhe easily Pata lenge.

 80 Hamesha koi badiya Body Spray (Perfume) lagaya kare. aapke Body ki khushbu Ladkiyon ko aapki aur attract karegi

81 Agar wo aapki kuch help kare to usse thanks zarur kahe. impression jamane ke liye ye chhoti-chhoti formalities bahut kaam aati hai.

 82 Agar aapke paas Bike ho to use hamesha saaf suthri rakhe, Ladkiyan Saaf suthri Bike me hi ghumna Pasand karti hai. issliye apne Bike ko attractive banaaye.

 83 Aap Mobile set aisa rakhe jo aapki Personality ko suet kare. achhe Mobile set rakh kar Ladkiyon ko apni taraf attract kiya ja sakta hai.

 84 Apne cell phone ke wallpaper me unka Photo set kar ke rakhe, aur use dikhaye wo aapse zarur impress hongi. ( * sirf use dikhaye uske bhai sahib ko nai. Mein aik daffa larki k bhai ko dikha betha aur...).

 85 Aap kisi din unse ye kah kar ki "aap mujhe aapna autograph denge to ye meri khushnasibi hogi". aap unka autograph mangkar unko impress kar sakte hai.

 86 Apne cell phone me koi Romantic Ring tone hi rakhe, Romantic Ring tone sunkar Ladkiyan zarur impress hoti hai. Ladkiyon ko Patane ke liye unhe impress karna bahut hi zaruri hai.

87 Unke ghar ke paas se jab bhi guzre unhe dekhne ki koshish zarur kare. unhe ye ehsas dilana zaruri hai ki aap unme interest rakhte hai.

 88 Agar aap unse kahi mile aur unke sath me unke Parents ho to unhein salam zarur bulain. Ladki forunn aapse impress hogi (agar Ladki JaanPehchan wali ho ussi condition me hi).

89 Agar wo age me aapse chhoti ho phir bhi aap unse "AAP" kahkar hi baat karein. unhe lagna chahiye ki aap unka bahut respect karte hain.

 90 Unke sath kabhi bhi bahas nahi karen hamesha unki baat ka sath dein. tabhi unko Pata sakte hai.

91 Har Ladki apne Khubsurti ki tarif sunana chahti hai issliye aap unki khubsurti ka hamesha tarif karte rahe. ye Ladki Patane ka Super hit Formula hai.

 92 Aap unhe hamesha ye kahe ki wo Duniya ki sabse Beautiful Ladki hai. wo aap se hamesha khush rahegi aur easily set ho jayegi. ( pyar aur jung me sab jayes hay).

93 Mere ek Dost ki 56 Girl Friend hai. usne un sabhi ko Patane ke liye jo Formula use kiya hai wo hai- "Ladkiyon se hamesha unke baare me hi baate karo". wo hamesha Ladkiyon se unke hi baare me baate karte rahta tha aur Ladkiyan Pat gai.

94 Unse kabhi bhi gandi baate na kare unse achhi baate hi kare, tabhi kamyabi milegi.

 95 Aap unse ye kahe ki aap unke liye kuch bhi kar sakte hai, wo aap se impress hogi hi.

96 Maximum Ladkiyan Clean shave kiye hue Ladko ko Like nahi karti hai issliye unhein khush dikhne ke liye shave na karien.

 97 Ladkiyon ko kabhi bhi ghur kar naa dekhe balki unhe hamesha Pyaar bhari nazaron se hi dekhe, Ladki aapki Diwani ho jayegi.

98 Agar kabhi unke sath Film jane ka mauka mile to koi Romantic Film hi dekhne jaye, unke sath Romantic Film dekhi matlab Ladki Pattiiiii.

99 Ladkiyan apne zulfon (hair) ki tarif sunana Pasand karti hai, issliye unhe Patane ke liye unke zulfon par Shayari sunaye yaa tarif kare.

100 Aap unki sabhi baaton par agree karein unke kisi bhi baaton ko naa kaate, aap dono ke think milne ka ehsas dilakar bhi aap unhe aasani se Pata sakte hai.

101 Aap unke sath hamesha unke baare me hi baate karein, aur unko special hone ka ehsas zarur dilaye, uski tareef me zameen asmaan aik kar dejye isse wo aapki Diwani ho jayegi.

Note : Ye topic sirf aap logon ki entertainment k lye likha gya hai.Iska maqsad aap logon ko aise ghattya kaam k lye mashwara dena nahi es lye meharbani se es ka galt estamal matt kejjye .

How to be with someone? The secrets of a fulfilled relationship

It is an inherent question considered interesting by many persons. I'll try to detail the most important moments that occur in the life of a couple and the needs we try to replace when we get involved in a relationship.

When you analyze a situation that caused sufferance for a couple, family or even people, there is always a certain tension; there is an inherent issue that appears by itself: it always comes about the best time of the couple, the moments when they met and the time when they were truly together. I think that the analysis of those situations can give us some references about what it means to be with someone. And in these moments occurs a fact: there isn't only a state of happiness, because in the background, the sufferance will be always present.



Being with someone is based on pleasure, but also on deprivation. The idea of deprivation is important in developing a relationship. The attraction for the other and the love for him involve implicitly, the deprivation. This 'lack' doesn't necessarily occur in moments of solitude. Being with someone means that he is already capable to receive this 'lack', to integrate it and understand it. But in order for the other to be able to do this, it's necessary that you feel able to manage the "lack".

The most difficult moments in a relationship, when occurs the inability of both partners to manage this 'lack', are those in which appears a need to continue the existence of the partner in a physical way. The other must be physically next to you, because, otherwise, it won't be possible for you to feel well. These moments are difficult because you assume your inability to be with yourself. In these situations, the other is missing and you want without realizing, to be affected by what is in you.

These circumstances lead to jealousy, which represents the inability to be alone, to be with your 'lack', with your anxiety, your old traumas, your own sufferance, and the other has the capacity to own it. In the absence of the owner, the sufferance occurs. Many of these situations produce a saturation effect on the relationship, as the partner won't have the ability to support a state of permanent presence, so he will leave, ending the relationship (at real or imaginary level).

I chose the term 'lack' because it is the one that responds to several situations - a lack of something - either a physical one (difference between genders), either the lack of a state originated in childhood, or a lack of relationships with parents, or a lack reflected in anxiety, with origins in the family history, or a lack marked by desire.

This makes the other -the couple partner- to be very different from any other social relation. You feel the need to fulfill that 'lack' by the presence of your partner. You think that after being with him, after succeeding to have a relationship, you won't feel deprived anymore. But this is not possible, because the 'lack' is felt by your partner and nothing will be the same as before, even if you feel now that it is possible. 

The beginning of a relationship is based on the illusion that the lack will be satisfied. If you take each couple at the beginning of the relationship you'll notice this, a great investment in the other and the fact that this investment gives a hope: "from now on, this will never happen, everything will be different in my life", seem to say those two. But this implies that there are different states, feelings, desires that are not satisfied, that reflect these lacks. As more as the other's reality becomes more visible and the couple realizes different experiences for real, as more the illusion will disappear, being replaced by the couple itself.

It is said that a relationship based on interest is more durable than one of love. From this perspective, it seems that the couple leaves from the start without the illusion of the absence, and that their marriage is not based on the idea that the other can replace the 'lack'. In other words, there is a risk of disillusion, but, on the other hand, they will be deprived by the pleasure of illusion.

Couples who resist are those who will to support the deception of filling the lack. But the solution that really exists is the acceptance of their 'lack'. The therapeutic approach is one in which this lack is expressed by words, understood, taken as it is, whatever it is.

What can destroy a marriage?

Any marriage has problems and divorces are frequent. What are the most common causes that lead to a break up?

In time, studies have shown that there are several predominant causes that lead to relationships break up. With little effort the problems of any couple can be solved, if both partners try to fix some small details. Here are the biggest dangers for a couple:

1. Infidelity

'It was just once...' Temptations are all up. And apologies can be easily found, even if they are never plausible. What you don't know can't hurt you, some could say. In reality, when a third person appears in a relationship, the affair is followed by a long series of lies and, inevitably, by a break up between partners.

2. Jealousy

'He certainly hides something from me!' Even after many years together, the suspicions occur step by step in the couple. You know him, you trust him, but a little precaution is needed. Slowly, the jealousy takes place in your soul: a suspicious smile, a long hair that's hanging on his coat, followed by questions, suspicions, anxiety. You're not sure anymore about his love, you interrogate him, you verify him. Your scenarios reflect the reality, sometimes. Then, you are sorry. But all these affect him, if he's innocent. And one day, he leaves.

3. Passivity

'Doesn't all come from itself?' After a long time of living together, there occurs that routine that everybody complains about. You don't feel the need to make yourself beautiful for him as you were doing at the beginning of your relationship and you don't expect him home with a surprise. He doesn't buy you flowers as he was using to, you even have the feeling that he avoids you sometimes. And each of you postpones doing something about...

4. Selfishness

‘I have so much to do!'
‘It’s not my job to help her in the kitchen! She has done this just fine all the time.' And if he has this attitude, why would you concern to provide him all he needs? Sometimes, we forget about the one next to us, about his wishes and needs. If we always put ourselves first, we'll remain there, but alone.

5. A poor communication

‘I don't need explanations!' When we start a conversation, we already have a conviction about what we'll be the answer of the interlocutor. We perceive his answers as being negative, before even trying to understand them. Finally, we run far away, remaining only with our thoughts. When you're not sure about what your partners tries to say, then ask him. Give him the opportunity to explain and listen to him.

Make him fall in love with you!

How can I make him fall in love with me?' This is one of the questions we ask when we meet someone and when we truly like a person. Far from strategies, preconceived ideas and tips conceived to drive him crazy after he sees you for the first time, the best is to read about the most important features that can make him fall in love with you.

Often we want to attract and seduce a man and perceive this as a challenge, without realizing that it represents more than that. You need more skills and patience to succeed in this endeavor. It certainly worth’s the effort, if you consider a long time project with him. I have a friend who tried for 10 years everything that can pass through the mind of a woman to seduce a man and just when she lost her hope, he dedicated his whole life to her.

Important characteristics 

The best option, beyond all your qualities that could attract him, it is to have a strong sense of realism. At the same time it is very important to attract him by making use of the features that characterize you, defining your personality: naturalness, creativity, spontaneity and the ability to avoid routine.

Experts claim that the naturalness implies freshness, regarding both the attitude and the external physical appearance. Imagine the following situation: you seduce the guy you like and it comes inevitably the moment when you sleep together. Even if a part of him was conquered by the person who uses dozens of small female tricks, as we all do, he will wake up in the morning next to 'another' woman, a woman he must like as much as before.

Spontaneity means not to lose your ability to laugh, in these circumstances, when you may be concerned to drive him crazy.


Independent, but without exceeding the limits

Your mother and grandmother's advice always say to try keeping our 'cold blood' and out head on the shoulders even when we are so in love that we feel like floating on small clouds. The best advices are influenced in the first weeks or even at the beginning of the relationship, by the strong desire to be next to him. You have the tendency to see your friends less often, to spend much less time immersed in the problems related to your career and to put on top the date with him or, when it's not practically impossible to be together, the moments when you dream with your eyes open.

This is a sensitive point. The independence is good, but men don't necessarily want this from a woman. He must see that you need him in your life, that you need his presence. The experts sweep away the myth of the independent woman who attracts men unconditionally. The truth is that I really wouldn't like to be next to a man who seems not to need me in any way.

Give him the importance he deserves to receive!

Strictly related to the ability to show him that you need him, but without being perceived as desperate to have a relationship or to seduce him no matter what, is the ability to make him feel that, in those first moments, he's important for you.

You can show him this by respecting him as a person and by showing him that you consider everything related to him: his presence next to you, the things he shares with you, the topics discussed.

Another important thing is to try, without exceeding the limits, that you know the person in front of you. Many times, when we fall in love, we intend to imagine all sorts of things about the person we like: we add him features and feelings that, maybe, he don't have, we imagine that we can 'read' different things in his behavior. We also create an idealized image and too little real about that man.

Get interested in what he likes! 

You don't have to become the fan of his favorite football team, to dress only in the colors of his team or to force your cat to wear a neck bell that plays his anthem! It's enough to care about him and to ask about his passions and things that interest him and, eventually, to spend your time next to him and to his 'passion'.

Don't think only about your needs!

If you're desperate to be with someone or marry, you should know that these things are perceived by others. Also, if your past relationship affected you, he will feel this. This warning addresses to those who think they could hide certain facts.

There are many factors that can influence the way in which the relationship between you and the man you want next to you will take place. It's good to understand that you can't control all these factors.

Falling in love is related to the first impressions. If you are not his type of woman, you could be Aphrodite as well, because there is nothing you can do about.

I think you should keep in mind one thing: try to enjoy every moment and to perceive your dates as being something special.

Why men end a relationship

Nothing is more annoying than when your partner leaves you without any explanation. 

The time has ended

Maybe you had at least one break up that left you wondering: "What happened?" The guy was next to you, you were next to him and all seemed to lead to a fabulous future. Then, all of a sudden, he left the relationship. So, what went wrong? -Maybe nothing, this is the cruel truth. Here are five completely ridiculous reasons for which your boyfriend ended the relationship.


Women take it seriously when they meet the right men. Men take it seriously with anyone they have a date with, when they are finally ready to get involved. This means that after all the others aspects of life are arranged, whether it's about finishing school, having a car and money, whether it came the moment when friends start to disappear (this is the moment when the man gets married).

But if you meet a guy before reaching this 'magic' stage of his life, it's very likely for him to leave you. He won't get used so fast with a life of responsibilities and explanations.


Men still haven't finished their game

Men are made to reach a higher target. If there is any possibility to improve what they already have, then they will surely do it. Women will perceive them as being unserious. 

In addition to their opportunistic tendencies, most guys feel forced to gather as many sexual conquests. None of them will ever experience enough women, because for every woman, the definition of the word 'enough' is different, so there is a change for him to remove you from his personal list just because you didn't reach late enough on it. 


Men are fixed on the worst scenario 

From the moment you punished him because he has let a wet towel on the bed, he archives every incident in a mental folder called "Evidence for when she will get worse.” Men come back to that folder every time they try to decide keeping the relationship. They blame their friends who went down before them. Many unmarried guys are aware of what could go wrong after. Even if they are crazy about their mate now, they panic that she will want sex only once a month and that she will bother them because of insignificant issues day and night. So they keep in mind certain things that warn about worse times to come. 


Men like, but they don't fall in love

It is painful but true. In fact, this is the most likely reason why men end a relationship. Just because a guy likes you very much, it's not a guarantee that he will get involved. And they have an amazing intuition when it comes about figuring out the potential of a woman. 

But why men invest time in a relationship that will end sooner or later? They do it because they are able to live now for a while and then move to a "good experience". But when their love mate shows them that she cares about their relationship more than they do, men end the relationship without remorse. 


Men are too tied to you 

When you just thought that the things that have been said until now were the worst scenario ever, here is something that is very hard to admit: Men protect their feelings, meaning that they are afraid not to be hurt. So if they start feeling that they get in the situation in which they would be destroyed if their partner would leave them, they could hit first. 

It sounds crazy, but think about how vulnerable and paranoid you feel when you're crazy about a guy. The same happens to men, but their friends are not so skilled to help them get over a former relationship. Moreover, a man with a broken heart seems weak. That's why men prefer to act like winners before becoming losers. Before being assaulted by pain and humiliation, their best option is to end the relationship.


Are you about to be dumped?

Signs that show that your partner is going to leave you:

- His mobile phone is always off. He might spend the time with someone else than you. Or he just doesn’t want to be available for you. 

- He's reluctant when it comes about making plans. If he avoids talking about commitments, than he thinks to break up with you.

- He became acrimonious. The passive-aggressive break up is characteristic to a 'standby' guy. Some men intentionally become acrimonious; in order to be sure that you'll be the one who will initiate the break up.

- He's not 'there' when you have sex. He doesn't want to feel connected to you or he fulfills his needs elsewhere.

How to get his phone number

When it comes about the love of your life, you can never know where and when you will meet HIM. So, when you see a nice guy in the park or at the market, don’t hesitate to make the first step and to invite him out. Obviously, you can't ask him to date you from the first moment, but you can try to get his phone number. 



Make him notice you 

Do not try to stand out by laughing hysterically, because you will scare him and the first impression is going to be a terrible one. Look at him and smile, and then go to him confidently. Keep your smile and introduce yourself. Start by saying that you noticed that he's having something you want (for example, at the market, you can say that he has a certain product you were looking for). 

Start a conversation 

Don't ask directly for his phone number, because I don’t think you want to make him believe that you're desperate. Keep talking about the product you asked about. Stop after a few seconds and if he seems to be interested in you, tell him that you would like to continue the conversation in the near future. 

The right time

If he reacts positively to your suggestion to continue the discussion another time, ask for his phone number. You can never know, maybe he will call you sooner or later, and that's a good sign. Don't give him all your phone numbers; one it's enough!

Immediately after... 

Even if you're inpatient to call him immediately, don't do it. Call him after two days (not more than to days because he can forget about you, but no sooner, because you'll seem desperate). If you are lucky, maybe he will make the first step.

5 Things you should never say to a single woman

Single women are able to take care of themselves without receiving valuable tips from friends! So, whatever your intentions are, let your friend to handle her relationships on her own.

Here are 5 phrases you should never say to a single woman:

1. Perhaps you're not trying hard enough...

It seems that you're judging her, although you just want to be helpful. You should encourage her to explore new relationships and not to give up her love life as long as she feels comfortable. Don't force her to take decisions she might regret later!

2. You should use more makeup

In this moment, you’re suggesting that it's very easy to find Prince Charming as long as you wear enough makeup to hide your wrinkles. Your friend might feel offended. Basically, you're attacking her identity. Whether she adopts a glamorous style or a natural one, every woman has the right to be herself. Somewhere, there is a man who is attracted by her style, whatever it is. If she behaves differently than usual, then she will meet men who have nothing in common with her.

3. You should go out more!

Your friend will understand that she has no social life. Well, here's something new: single people don’t live in a closet, in fetal position, waiting for a miracle to happen! By the contrary, most of them work, meet their friends to events and go out for dinner. They just haven't met yet their soul mate.

4. You're too demanding! 

This phrase emphasizes that someone who is single at this point of his life is not entitled to make choices. It's not nice to say that, if you have some respect for your friend.

5. Take it easy...

This phrase can be translated into: "You're asking too many questions. You will make him run away. You have too many opinions. You work too much." It means that your friend wants too many things and that she risks disturbing her partner by adopting this attitude. Well, if she has a strong personality, than she won't listen to your advice; moreover, she will feel offended by your words, because they are unjustified. Getting involved in a relationship means much more than chatting with the other.

6 Signs that he wants to break up with you

Does your boyfriend behave strange in the last time? Look for the 'break up symptoms' and find out if there can be done something about.



We all do this - we get to a point of the relationship where we realize that things don't go well anymore and as we can't do anything about, we wait for the partner to make the first step to a break up. It's easier for us to give signals that something is wrong and as you do this, of course, he has also his own ways by which he wants to announce you indirectly that he won't be there anymore.

1. Of a sudden he's terribly busy and you aren't one of his priorities. And it's not about his over busy job. He just prefers instead of you a video on YouTube, a prolonged discussion on the Messenger, an article from a magazine, all one after another...

2. He doesn't call you anymore during the day to ask you what you're doing. You're the only one who takes the phone and looks for him, while he rejects your call several times because he's too busy and then he forgets to call back.

3. His friends (and family) are increasingly cold- it is one of the clearest signals that things don't go well anymore. He discusses with his friends about your relationship and if it's hard to notice any changes in his attitude, you can search for useful signs in he's friend’s behavior.

4. He doesn't respect his promises. You have to pray to him forever to get help with something or solve a problem. He promises you something and changes his mind in the last moment, because of various reasons, which in other circumstances were completely unimportant.

5. He stops speaking about you as a couple when it comes about future. Of a sudden everything that was 'the next year we'll go, we'll do, we'll have' becomes 'I want to go, I want to buy' and so on. Moreover, he is very unclear regarding any plan that concerns you both, even if it's about a short time. If you start a discussion something that you're going to do together, he answers reluctant: 'we'll see.'

6. He blames you for everything; he turns your words back and acts crazy. It's a very coward technique, but you'd be surprised to find out how many men use it. If he doesn't have enough courage to end up, then he makes the other indirectly to take the final decision. This issue is even more unpleasant as it makes impossible any friendship after the relationship ends. If he starts to forbid you to go out with your friends, if he looks over your shoulder to see who you're talking with on messenger, if he makes jealousy crises, many small and unjustified reproaches, then it's better to give up him as quick as you can.

6 Truths about couples

Many partners seem to live their lives playing the marriage game. We are by celebrities who joke about the fifth, sixth or the seventh of their marriage. Instead of changing continually their partners in search of a happy relationship, people should learn to manage their conflicts, anger and misunderstandings that are common to all relationships. Unfortunately, the partners start a relationship without having some rules for both sides to face some strong negative feelings, which are also an inevitable part of relationships.

1. Each relationship has its own reserve of hope

Studies show that the most destructive quarrels and conflicts start from some good intentions. These good intentions form the basis of a hidden reserve of hope, which helps the partners to create a relationship full of satisfaction.

2. A single shot can cancel 20 moments of gentleness and understanding. 

We discovered that it's enough just one major fight to cancel many hours of gentleness offered to the partner. The key: intimate partners must learn how to control the exchange of negative behaviors by finding a way to express their feelings in a constructive manner. The constructive expression of criticism is a problem related to our way of 'showing' ourselves to the others and choosing the best time and place for a conversation.

3. Small changes in you can lead to major changes in the relationship. 

We started our research figuring that it will be easy to discover the differences between happy couples and the less lucky ones, and, although it seems that these differences are clear, they are really small and subtle. Most couples who have difficulties believe that to improve things, there must take place extraordinary changes, even a miracle. And because the human nature is as it is, most of us, when facing relationship problems, believe that the partner must do the changes and not us; we don't realize that we don't have control over the partner's behavior.

As a result, we develop a kind of helplessness and a lack of hope about our relationship. We think that if he or she could change, everything would be fine. The problem occurs when we realize that by doing even small changes in us; we can obtain a great effect, as the possible changes make us more optimistic and open to our partners.

Add to your relationship a compliment told to your partner related to the way he looks and reduce ironies from your relationship (ignoring your partner when you're angry).

4. The way in which differences are managed lead to relationship problems and not the differences between partners.

Many people believe that their relationship with the partner has problems because there are differences between him/her and the other. We hear many couples saying: 'We are not compatible; he likes to go out, I like to stay home'. Or: 'she goes early to bed; I'm a guy who stays until up late at night.’ These explanations are a way of motivating why relationships don't work and why the partners are unhappy. But rather than focus on the understandings or misunderstandings of the couple, the partners who want a happy relationship should improve their listening skills.

This has nothing to do with eliminating differences, with forcing a consensus or advising the other. The listening skills, understanding and accepting the differences is the most important. Having a good listener means to have a good friend. In a happy relationship, a partner can count on the other as he counts on a good friend and not on a player or counselor.

5. Men and women fight with different weapons, but suffer the same wounds. 

Not only than men and women suffer the same wounds, but they also support them in achieving the same objectives: acceptance, support, affection. When partners try to understand what goes wrong in a relationship they tend to look more at the weapons they use than to the final goals that are much desired by both. When we focused the research on the common goals of men and women in a relationship, we revealed many wrong opinions related to the differences between men and women in a marriage.

Contrary to the conventional opinion that men have 'problems with intimacy' and women tend to over react, men and women differ very little in their desire for intimacy and connection. From a variety of reasons, biological and cultural, men have more difficulties in managing a conflict, and women find hard to stand the emotionally distance. Often, men avoid and run because of the uncomfortable situations related to their marriage and women feel the immediate need to solve any conflict through discussion.

6. The partners need to 'practice' skills of having relationships in order to manage in this area.

7 Signs that he wants you back

You broke up some time ago, but your ex boyfriend seems rather desirous to be again with you than to forget about your relationship, In this case, you should make sure that he really wants you back and, if the result is as expected, to act accordingly. Be sure that he will be as delighted with the result as you. 

This happened to you also and, if not, it will happen. You pass throw a break up, but you don't want him to forget you and meanwhile you realize that it would be a good idea to be together again.

There are pretty big chances that your ex boyfriend to feel the same, only he's afraid to confess you this. And most times he listens to his pride and fear of being refused, although he would have considerable chances to be with you.

To make sure that your ex feels the same, we prepared you 7 signs that he wants you back. If he meets at least two of these signs, than it's obvious that he hasn't forgot you.

1. Signs from far: he makes everything possible to get around you, either directly or through relatives / friends. 

2. Looks and touches: every time when you're together he tries to get closer to you, to touch you or to look at you deeply.

3. Very much time: even if during your relationship your boyfriend was complaining all the time that he doesn't have too much free time, now he has all the time in the world to spend in your company.

4. Style changes: all your demands finally found a resolution. Now he understands that he should pay more attention to his appearance, he gave up that horrible hair color (of which you have complained from the beginning of the relationship) and became the man with whom you'd like to meet. 

5. Explanation and efforts: Your ex boyfriend makes sincere efforts to explain you his new projects and asks for your advice constantly, although he wasn't appreciating your opinion in the past.

6. But why? He always brings in discussion your break up and explains you why you ended your relationship and how things could be better.

7. The future sounds good: I don't know why, but he considers you when it comes about all his future plans, although he wasn't doing this at all before ending your relationship.

If these signs are usual in the relationship with your ex...Then maybe you should think twice and forgive him...This is the way men are, more difficult.

7 Signs that he won't take you out to a second date

You meet for the first time and he is kind and polite. But his body language offers you clues about how much you attract him. By analyzing his behavior during your first date, you can tell if he will take you out or not to a second date.

1. He doesn't look into your eyes. Even if he is shy, a man who finds you attractive can't take his eyes away from you.

2. He doesn't touch you subtle. If he is attracted by you, he touches delicate your arm, your hand or your back, while you talk or go near one another. 

3. He doesn't smile too much. Even he is shy or he has a bad day, if he wants to impress you, he should smile at what you say or laugh when you joke.

4. He doesn't seem interested in you. If a man is interested in you, he asks you about your life, about the things you like, about what you do in your spare time, about what's your favorite music...

5. He doesn't mention anything about a second date between you. If he likes you, he tries to establish a second date or at least to suggest one. Or he can listen to your preferences (film, theatre, music) and invite you.

6. He doesn't accompanies you home or at least to your car. If he is interested in you, he will want to stay as much as possible next to you, from the first minute of your date to the last one. 

7. He shakes your hand and says something like: 'It was nice to meet you'. This is what you usually say to a person of who you're not attracted physically and emotionally. On the other hand, kisses on the cheek or a hug are clear signs that he wants to have a more intimate relationship with you.

Do you want a man or do you need one?

I know many women who complain that they simply can not face another holiday being alone. There are many women like them, of all ages, from 20 years to 60 years. But you see, they don't want a man, they need one; because they need someone who can fill the gap in their lives.

It's a big difference between wanting a man and needing a man. 

Why do I say that? The difference is about the type of man you will attract - one who will love you and will make from your happiness a priority, or a man who will put first his own needs and desires. (And who will let you wait).

Men are attracted by women who are not indifferent to the opposite sex, who want a man, without really needing one, and who act according to this.

They also detect (like a camera!) the type of women who need a man, who are frightened by the thought of being alone, who are desperate to have a man in their lives.

What kind of signals do you transmit to men?

If you find yourself in the category of those who need a man, admit it. You don't have to be shame about. Eventually, acceptance is the first step toward change. And starting with this moment, try to develop that self esteem happiness and trust which will attract the men you deserve. Happy women, who love and respect themselves, attract that type of men who will love them, in turn, and who will do all to satisfy them.

How to become one of these women?

For the start, treat yourself like a treasure waiting to be discovered. Talk to yourself as you would talk to the person you love the most. If you feel like saying: 'this always happens only to me', 'I'm so stupid' or 'the destiny wants me to be alone', than stop right now.

Change your words in 'I love myself and I accept my self unconditionally.', 'I'm the best', 'I attract good men, good friends and favorable situations'.

Think, for example, about how would you treat the one you love the most and treat yourself in the same way.

Above all, remember that there will be moments when you will be unsure of yourself, when you won't have all the answers, when you will step into a room full of people and you'll feel afraid. But it's ok, it is very normal.

Love yourself more than anything else

Soon, you'll see how good things and good people will be attracted as a magnet to you.