Single women are able to take care of themselves without receiving valuable tips from friends! So, whatever your intentions are, let your friend to handle her relationships on her own.
Here are 5 phrases you should never say to a single woman:
1. Perhaps you're not trying hard enough...
It seems that you're judging her, although you just want to be helpful. You should encourage her to explore new relationships and not to give up her love life as long as she feels comfortable. Don't force her to take decisions she might regret later!
2. You should use more makeup
In this moment, you’re suggesting that it's very easy to find Prince Charming as long as you wear enough makeup to hide your wrinkles. Your friend might feel offended. Basically, you're attacking her identity. Whether she adopts a glamorous style or a natural one, every woman has the right to be herself. Somewhere, there is a man who is attracted by her style, whatever it is. If she behaves differently than usual, then she will meet men who have nothing in common with her.
3. You should go out more!
Your friend will understand that she has no social life. Well, here's something new: single people don’t live in a closet, in fetal position, waiting for a miracle to happen! By the contrary, most of them work, meet their friends to events and go out for dinner. They just haven't met yet their soul mate.
4. You're too demanding!
This phrase emphasizes that someone who is single at this point of his life is not entitled to make choices. It's not nice to say that, if you have some respect for your friend.
5. Take it easy...
This phrase can be translated into: "You're asking too many questions. You will make him run away. You have too many opinions. You work too much." It means that your friend wants too many things and that she risks disturbing her partner by adopting this attitude. Well, if she has a strong personality, than she won't listen to your advice; moreover, she will feel offended by your words, because they are unjustified. Getting involved in a relationship means much more than chatting with the other.
Here are 5 phrases you should never say to a single woman:
1. Perhaps you're not trying hard enough...
It seems that you're judging her, although you just want to be helpful. You should encourage her to explore new relationships and not to give up her love life as long as she feels comfortable. Don't force her to take decisions she might regret later!
2. You should use more makeup
In this moment, you’re suggesting that it's very easy to find Prince Charming as long as you wear enough makeup to hide your wrinkles. Your friend might feel offended. Basically, you're attacking her identity. Whether she adopts a glamorous style or a natural one, every woman has the right to be herself. Somewhere, there is a man who is attracted by her style, whatever it is. If she behaves differently than usual, then she will meet men who have nothing in common with her.
3. You should go out more!
Your friend will understand that she has no social life. Well, here's something new: single people don’t live in a closet, in fetal position, waiting for a miracle to happen! By the contrary, most of them work, meet their friends to events and go out for dinner. They just haven't met yet their soul mate.
4. You're too demanding!
This phrase emphasizes that someone who is single at this point of his life is not entitled to make choices. It's not nice to say that, if you have some respect for your friend.
5. Take it easy...
This phrase can be translated into: "You're asking too many questions. You will make him run away. You have too many opinions. You work too much." It means that your friend wants too many things and that she risks disturbing her partner by adopting this attitude. Well, if she has a strong personality, than she won't listen to your advice; moreover, she will feel offended by your words, because they are unjustified. Getting involved in a relationship means much more than chatting with the other.
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